"너무 힘들어요."

chin made an analogy once in a sticky relational situation. "what would you do if a friend was riding a bike and fell off? what would your first reaction be? would it be to say 'i told you so' and tell him what he did wrong? no, you would pick him up and see if he was ok. that's what friends do - they put the relationship before being right or wrong"

sometimes it's just too much.

and you wish that it would just listen for once.